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this is what i just picked up from the grocery store. it cost $32. Thirty. two. dollars. for 1 pineapple, 2 bags of grapes, a small container of raspberries, 1 soft drink and 2/$1 nuts…. 

do you know how much junk food i could have for $32? do you have any clue how much McDonald’s you can get for $32?

stop shaming fat people poorer than you or people poorer than you in general for not eating healthier. stop lying about how cheap it is or how it’s comparable to fast food. just stop.


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Trying to be cosmic ya’ll.

look at this radiant child!

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Let’s have a meaningful chat about natural hair in the workplace ladies and gents! Nothing new, but how do you handle this request? I’d have to decline, because as we always say - My hair, My choice (@nevabnprmd). So what say you? Full article on @huffingtonpost.com #naturalhairdoescare #colorcodefriday #naturallycurlyhair

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warning: puffs in pictures are bigger than they appear.

Perfect puff is perfect

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Anonymous said: Your body is so on point!! I struggle with healthy snacks throughout the day, suggestions? Thanks


Hi! Thank you :) Hm, I am such a snack person I could name a million. Here are my top ten:

1) Frozen Grapes
2) Lentil Chips
4) Popcorn (air popped)
5) Carrots + Hummus
6) Apple + Almonds
7) Rice Cake + Natural Almond or Peanut Butter
8) Homemade Sweet Potato Chips (tons of recipes on google)
9) Greek Yogurt + Granola (not an excessive amount of granola)
10) No Bake Energy Bites (homemade, google it!)


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Neptune callout. tw rape, sexual assault, transmisogyny




So I’ve had much trepidation in talking about this publicly much less in a ‘callout’ manner post. In recent weeks this has been much more of a triggering force within my life and despite any suppression it’s not going away.

two years ago, queer Olympia recording artist Princess Neptune (tumblr user parasiteprogram) facilitated and took part in sexually assaulting and raping me with her friend Dani Witherspoon. While we both consented to playing with them taking on a dominating role and myself submitting, I never consented to have cis-sexist and trans*misogynist insults. i never agreed to be told that I was a “man”, “ugly”, “could never be a woman”, or have any masculine traits of mine to be pointed out and ridiculed in the vulnerable state I was in. after the scene ended I received nothing in the way of aftercare, and cut any future communication in a okcupid message the following day telling me she hadn’t gotten off. this was at a time when I was closeted as a transwoman and presenting as a cis male. other than my loving boyfriend Emmett, Neptune was the only other person to know this as I had made it policy to come out to people I could see potentially dating. to say this incident set back my transition is an understatement.

I’m not writing this for recognition, validation, or out of spite. I need to be able to talk about this, and for the last two years I’ve felt suffocated by what happened to me to even acknowledge and doubt the events as I remember them. As this is still very much triggering subject for me, I will not be discussing this further, answering any questions or doubts, and won’t read any notes regarding this.

post script. i do not know Princess Neptune’s legal name. if you know it, please send me a message so I can alter this as needed.

please signal boost this if you’re at all able to. 

Neptune / parasiteprogram is a rapist and a violent transmisogynist.

She is really popular in “radical” queer communities, both on and off of tumblr and we need to do our part in supporting survivors and not allowing abusers to be accepted in our circles.

she goes by aeon-fux now but yeah I keep seeing y’all reblog her and you should know that she’s a transmisogynist and a rapist. I keep seeing ppl say they “can’t find anything about it” so please signal boost this so people stop making excuses for rape apologism.

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How to keep yourself safe from iCloud hackers. Please make sure your auto photo sharing is turned off so that others don’t fall victim to having their photos stolen like those poor celebs.

Reblog to get the word out!

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Resources for Male Survivors


I posted last week asking people if they knew of some good resources for male victims of sexual assault. Here is the list people came up with:







Thanks everyone.

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Gotta do what I gotta do

Davon, father my future kids too man 😩

this is beautiful




Black Father Excellence 

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posted about this guy before

unfortunately he’s still online and looking for women of color to exotify/fetishize. 

please reblog so other women of color in Colorado are spared. 

stay woke ya’ll

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