Neptune callout. tw rape, sexual assault, transmisogyny




So I’ve had much trepidation in talking about this publicly much less in a ‘callout’ manner post. In recent weeks this has been much more of a triggering force within my life and despite any suppression it’s not going away.

two years ago, queer Olympia recording artist Princess Neptune (tumblr user parasiteprogram) facilitated and took part in sexually assaulting and raping me with her friend Dani Witherspoon. While we both consented to playing with them taking on a dominating role and myself submitting, I never consented to have cis-sexist and trans*misogynist insults. i never agreed to be told that I was a “man”, “ugly”, “could never be a woman”, or have any masculine traits of mine to be pointed out and ridiculed in the vulnerable state I was in. after the scene ended I received nothing in the way of aftercare, and cut any future communication in a okcupid message the following day telling me she hadn’t gotten off. this was at a time when I was closeted as a transwoman and presenting as a cis male. other than my loving boyfriend Emmett, Neptune was the only other person to know this as I had made it policy to come out to people I could see potentially dating. to say this incident set back my transition is an understatement.

I’m not writing this for recognition, validation, or out of spite. I need to be able to talk about this, and for the last two years I’ve felt suffocated by what happened to me to even acknowledge and doubt the events as I remember them. As this is still very much triggering subject for me, I will not be discussing this further, answering any questions or doubts, and won’t read any notes regarding this.

post script. i do not know Princess Neptune’s legal name. if you know it, please send me a message so I can alter this as needed.

please signal boost this if you’re at all able to. 

Neptune / parasiteprogram is a rapist and a violent transmisogynist.

She is really popular in “radical” queer communities, both on and off of tumblr and we need to do our part in supporting survivors and not allowing abusers to be accepted in our circles.

she goes by aeon-fux now but yeah I keep seeing y’all reblog her and you should know that she’s a transmisogynist and a rapist. I keep seeing ppl say they “can’t find anything about it” so please signal boost this so people stop making excuses for rape apologism.

(Source: bluntedqt)

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How to keep yourself safe from iCloud hackers. Please make sure your auto photo sharing is turned off so that others don’t fall victim to having their photos stolen like those poor celebs.

Reblog to get the word out!

(Reblogged from absolutelyroyale)

Resources for Male Survivors


I posted last week asking people if they knew of some good resources for male victims of sexual assault. Here is the list people came up with:

Thanks everyone.

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Gotta do what I gotta do

Davon, father my future kids too man 😩

this is beautiful




Black Father Excellence 

(Reblogged from rahkneeshuh)


posted about this guy before

unfortunately he’s still online and looking for women of color to exotify/fetishize. 

please reblog so other women of color in Colorado are spared. 

stay woke ya’ll

(Reblogged from marfmellow)


Tea tree oil is one of the strongest astringents you could ever use on yourself. Undiluted tea tree can burn the skin. When I was on my vacation I packed a small bottle in my carry on and somehow a little of it leaked out. It ruined the packaging of every other toiletry I had in there. I don’t recommend using it on the skin at all unless diluted with water or a carrier oil because it will kill and destroy everything, good and bad.

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"But you don’t look African"



But there isn’t a singular look for African women and girls

Imazighen women






Edo women



Yoruba women



Ashanti women




Somali bantu women



Oromo women

cute Oromo girl, Oromia, Africa

Africa | 'Borana beauty'.  The Oromo people consist of four main groups, the Borana is one of them.  Southern Ethiopia | ©  Johan Gerrits.

Africa | Two Oromo Girls, photographed on a road in Dessie, Ethiopia | © MAMA ETIOPIA :: MAMMA ETHIOPIA, via Flickr

Tigray-Tigrinya women




Toubou women




Xhosa women




Khoisan women





And many more….

(Reblogged from shantrinas)


here’s some from my photo shoot with romaphotography

it was a blast and i really can’t wait for the next one!

(Reblogged from letsgetnaughtygirl)


Cleaning out my photo booth. I’ve had this macbook all 3 years of law school and it’s so FUNNY (and embarrassing) to see how I used to look. From blunt cut bangs to colored contacts and faux nose rings and natural hair and twists and glasses….I changed a lot.

(Reblogged from lovelyandbrown)


Yh I’m creeped out by how Ariana Grande is sexualised and also made to look like a child simultaneously. Whoever is marketing her needs to stop it.

Like I agree that I’m creeped out by the way people sexualize her but we shouldn’t shame her for the way she looks. If I’m being real I haven’t seen her being marketed as some creepy sexy baby, people just perceive her that way. She has a baby face and dresses the way she likes which is age appropriate because she’s 21. In regards to her hairstyle, whatever. She said once that her hair was damaged so she wears it up but either way thats her business. Instead we should focus on how grown men (far too old for her) talk about her sexually and how people make jokes about her being a child (especially pertaining to her relationship with Big Sean. 

(Reblogged from indragamano)






This is a summary of college only using two pictures; expensive as hell.

That’s my Sociology “book”. In fact what it is is a piece of paper with codes written on it to allow me to access an electronic version of a book. I was told by my professor that I could not buy any other paperback version, or use another code, so I was left with no option other than buying a piece of paper for over $200. Best part about all this is my professor wrote the books; there’s something hilariously sadistic about that. So I pretty much doled out $200 for a current edition of an online textbook that is no different than an older, paperback edition of the same book for $5; yeah, I checked. My mistake for listening to my professor.

This is why we download. 

Spreading this shit like nutella because goddamn textbooks are so expensive. 

Signal Boast

saving for glory, reblogging for justice.

Scan, share, give away your old text books. Do whatever you can to keep these greedy jerks from making their obscene profits at the expense of our ever-deepening debt.

(Reblogged from aureocipolla)



Palestinians don’t have basic humanitarian supplies. No food or clean water and the Israeli army is given luxuries. 
Never buy Garnier. Filth.

hey bump this shit because this is fucking horrid

boycott this ish




Palestinians don’t have basic humanitarian supplies. No food or clean water and the Israeli army is given luxuries. 

Never buy Garnier. Filth.


hey bump this shit because this is fucking horrid

boycott this ish

(Source: standwithpalestine)

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seen at afropunk2k14
The desperate white girl who results to racism to fit in with the Black people

- Jess


She is the type of white girl that says things like

" I went to afropunk and everyone there was so nice."

" They liked what i wore."

" What do you mean cultural appropriation? I  come every year and no one bothers me."

backwashed-barrel and I saw her getting her photograph taken and could not believe it. The photographer was white, too. A white photographer at a Black music festival photographing a white woman appropriating other cultures. Yes.

Exploiting black culture and appropriating it at the same damn time.

why does she look like Riff Raff

cause all white people look the same

is that unclefather

she is managing to appropriate at least three cultures at once i am truly amazed

I saw her!! this drove me nuts.

like we made it very clear you and your white dreads are not welcome here afro punk. not “greasy matted limp nasty ass white fake ‘dreadlocked’ hair punk” y’all have enough places for you!!!! give us this!!! keep your cultural appropriating asses away from our places!!

Somebody said they thought this was Kimmy Gibbler😭

The whites must be stopped!

The worst thing about this is, Afropunk was created bc white punk kids are racist and exclude Black people from their shit…now they infiltrating.


used to intern for afro punk. we were told to make our graphic design campaign “less afrocentric” and more inclusive to white people….

The graphic design work was then outsourced to white latinas.

The organization makes me sick. They routinely push eurocentric beauty standards, and the founder knows jack shit about the African American Experience because *gasp* he is not african american. He is guyanese and british (and rich) (and being sued for not paying employees).

Go to a show during the year, and it is a sea of white faces. Go to battle of the bands, and watch a 10 piece band with one black member (who isnt even the lead) win.

Do not support uncle toms. If afro punk can’t be for those of the diaspora, then I fail to see what the point of the organization is.

Stop supporting corporate funded appropriation just because a few pretty black people are involved.

well now I’m not sure if I’ll bother going next year…

(Reblogged from africanaquarian)
(Reblogged from princess--lana)